Adaya Adler

Pronouns: she/her
47 Years Old
United States, Illinois,

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Adaya Adler (she/her) has been involved in the Chicago kink community since 2008.  She identifies as a top/bottom switch.  Always concerned about issues of social justice, she founded and ran The Chicago Feminist Renaissance for two years, taking a deep look at the intersection of kink and feminism.  Now it is her mission to take mainstream toxic relationship recovery sources and help make them more accessible to people who identify as kinky, sex worker, polyamorous, and/or swinger and less ableist both individually and as a community.  She is the founder of The PITT (Peers Improving after Toxicity Together), an online community that can be found on Fetlife and Facebook.  

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Facebook:  Adaya Adler (You won't be able to friend request me, but send me a DM and I'll see it)

Fetlife:  Adaya

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