Pronouns: She/ Her
35 Years Old
Canada, Alberta,

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Hello everyone, My name is Kelly, and I'm from Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. I am also a Transgender female submissive. My Pronouns are She/ Her. I've been in the BDSM lifestyle/ community now for about 14 years. I have both online and in-person experience. I first started in the bdsm scene in 2009-2010. I suffer from/ have depression, General anxiety disorder, and Social anxiety. I haven't been diagnosed with it yet, and I'm not sure if you can be fully diagnosed with it. But I'm pretty sure I also have Gender Dysphoria. I have made many mistakes in the bdsm community online and in person but isn't that what humans do? We learn from our mistakes, which is what I have done. Through all of the mistakes that I've made, I've learned from all of them what not to do. I'm always learning new things and evolving as a person and kinkster. I still have some past trauma from childhood bullying as well as some horrible experiences that I had in my local bdsm community. I am a timid person and keep everything guarded very close to my chest. As I have some trust issues that I'm still working on. I'm attending the Thrive Conference this weekend because I want to learn more about trauma, how to move past it, and other things related to mental health. I believe there needs to be more discussions around mental health and kink. And how to be a more inclusive kink community with people with mental health issues. I've also attended many conferences and classes in person and online, including Lupercalia, Kink School, and other classes in my local bdsm community like bdsm 101, etc. Even though I can seem very shy, I'm approachable and easy to talk to. I am looking forward to attending my first Thrive conference this weekend, and I'm looking forward to meeting everyone. Please feel free to ask me any questions that you may have. I can't wait to see you all this weekend. 

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