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Princess Asshole


Profile Details

Princess Asshole (P.A.), she/they, is just your run-of-the-mill asshole trying to do weird stuff to people and have a lot of laughs in the process. She is a creative by trade, and loves to play in arenas that push her creativity, especially in kink. You’ll often find her carving art into skin, piercing people, or fulfilling her sadistic, surgical dreams of being a pharmacist.

Originally from the Dallas/Fort Worth area, where she co-ran TNG DFW (formerly TNG Dallas) for almost 4 years, she transplanted to the Denver/Boulder area in 2018. She has been active in the public kink scene since 2015. P.A. has dedicated herself to serving her community as a volunteer for local groups, as well as organizing education and social events for TNG DFW and TNG Denver. In 2018, P.A. was selected as the TNG Liaison for South Plains Leatherfest in Dallas, Texas and is honored to continue to serve in this role. She is also is humbled to be the 2019/2020 Rocky Mountain Person of Leather.

P.A. identifies as a queer, polyamorous, top-leaning switch. She dedicates herself in helping educate her community on out-of-the-box kink, self-awareness, advocacy, and overall inclusivity in all the facets of her life.

Who will be presenting:

Who's on First- A Switch Discussion

Discussion Description

How do you manage a dynamic/relationship dynamic with switches? How do you manage a dynamic of switches that switch with each other? Who wears the pants? Who's on bottom? Who pitches and who catches? Join in a discussion on how we can navigate our switchiness in our dynamics, stereotypes in gender roles and why switches are hit hard by these, as well as affirming our switch selves in kink.

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