All Things Service: Panel Discussion

Above all else, I am Lady Catherine’s devoted faithful servant.

I serve on the Board of SouthEast LeatherFest as registration coordinator, scholarship program coordinator, an operations assistant and a variety of other miscellaneous with the goal of making an event that is welcoming, accepting and a happy place to spend a weekend.

I currently call the Baltimore/DC area home. I am the producer of Twisting Culture and also the treasurer of F.I.S.T. I relocated to Baltimore from the Denver area. While in the Denver area I served as a long term facilitator of COLLAR. I was also fortunate enough to volunteer for Thunder in the Mountains dungeon build crew for many years. The last few years of which I lead the design and build of their dungeon. I was a founding member of MAsT-Denver, and an active member of several different versions of the Labyrinth as well as the Sanctuary and other groups in the Rocky Mountain region.

When asked how I identify I usually say something along these lines... dyke, butch, gender fluid, poly, Papa/Daddy/Sir, switch, boy and faithful servant to my beloved Ma’am, Lady Catherine, for whom the world spins and I would give my last breath. Tree hugger and wanna-be vegan are still fair labels too. But I am the ever-evolving kind so hopefully there will be a few more evolutions!

If you see me out and about, please introduce yourself, I would love to meet you...

Ms. Lola Smiles is a Latina Femdom Fatale from Long Island, NY who has been in the lifestyle for over 25 years - a BDSM educator & presenter and event promoter for 8 years. On January 17, 2021, Ms Lola Smiles was honored and humbled to have received her Cover and earned the title of Covered Master.

Ms. Lola founded SCK Events and heads the House of SCK. SCK Events hosts munches and a variety of upscale events and parties on LI & NYC. Adapting to the post COVID world, Ms Lola & SCK host the F#@k You Coronavirus Virtual Events. The House of SCK was founded on the core values of loyalty, support & family.

As a presenter/educator Ms Lola Smiles has presented on topics including Consent & Negotiations, Scene Etiquette, Vetting, Polyamory, CBT, Impact Play and Breath Play to name a few. She has also participated and moderated a variety of panels on Dominance and People of Color (POC) in the Scene. Ms. Lola has been honored to present for Sanctuary
 

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