Pronouns: Switchress
104 Years Old
United States, ,
(Bio that will be used only for this event)
My name is Shay Au Lait, the Kinky Siren Switchress. I am equal parts playfully innocent and dangerously kinky. As a Professional and Lifestyle Dominatrix, I most often manifest as a Sorcerer, a Shapeshifter, and a Wolf. I am very much a multi-layered, tactile creature. I delight in playing with the power and lingering in the pleasure of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism. I conduct rituals on stage and in scenes, traversing between worlds to exact magic.
Other titles bestowed upon me include The Erotic Goddess, The Typhoon of Temptation, Intellectual Sensual Shaman, The Maya Angelou of Kink, The Typhoon of Terror and The BaDonkaMonk
Other identities & kinks that speak to aspects of me: Primal, Experimentalist, Sadomasochist, Voyeur & Exhibitionist, Psychological Edger/Torturer**
Select specialties as a PRO: Sensual and Sensory Play/Deprivation, Power Play, Mindfucks, Edging & Edgeplay, Energy Play, Role Play, Impact Play, Tease & Denial, Bondage & Restraint, Psychological Torture & Discipline, Interrogations
As a practitioner and producer, I also host, photograph, and facilitate fetish events, workshops, shows, and festival experiences. I also enjoy speaking on panels regarding the lifestyle.
Select Keynote Addresses:
- “Would You Please Speak Your Spells? | The Rhetoric of BDSM and Kink”
- “BDSM As a Healing Tool”
- “Vanilla is a Flavor: You Don’t Have to Be Kinky To Be Freaky”
- “Embodying the Role of the Femme Fatale”
- “How To Be The Fatale Person: An Archetypal Exploration”
- “What’s Your Villain Origin Story?”
- “Release Through Restraints”
- “What is A Switchress: Embodying Fluid Freedom”
- “Vanilla to BDSM: Where Do Newbies Go to Learn”
- "Consent Talks Need to Include Rejection"
- "Beginner BDSM for Advance Freaks"
At A Glance
- 15 Years in the Lifestyle, 11 Years as a Professional
- I am Queer, Polyamorous, Pansexual, and Greysexual too.
- I am an introvert and a loner and I spend most of my time by myself, in solitude and in silence.
- I’ve been called by others “a renown pole dancer and burlesque artist” with additional specialties in theatre, aerial, spoken word, cabaret & gogo.
A Deeper Dive Into My Psyche
As a Sorcerer & Priestess, I am a visceral and electric force to be reckoned with as I spiral erotic energy within my ceremonies. I create immersive experiences and altars for consecration and sacrifice. From smudging to reiki and erotic touch, I focus on cosmic, transformative ceremonies. That level of reverence is balanced by the Witchy Mad Scientist within me that seeks to conduct subversive experiments through provocative enchantments, activities, and assignments.
In my own personal life, I am most hungry for power exchange, energy exchange, and sensations of pleasure. I’m hungry for explorations in curiosity, seduction, intentional touch, full-body experiences, edging, and transformational, galactic experiences that shift my state of mind and bring me to presence. Let it be mysterious, mystical, and magical. I desire for every encounter to be spirited, conscious, intentional, and sacred, even if it be primal, sadistic, and vicious. It's a decadent and dangerous life that I dance.
Come closer in many ways...
Switchress
