Pronouns: She/Her
33 Years Old
United States, California,
(Bio that will be used only for this event)
I am a lady who is still a work in process but who knows exactly what she wants in life and strives to pursue just that.
I love learning, growing and adapting to the ever changing world around me.
I love just taking life as it comes and approaching the hurdles knowing there is a bigger better outcome on the other side.
I love being outdoors and enjoying the world around me.
I love being active, healthy and athletic.
I love being the fun outgoing person full of life who takes on most adventures that approach me.
I am adventurous, wild and daring.
I am whole but at peace.
I am sweet yet bratty (at times).
I am a submissive at heart and love being one but I Top when I get the chance. It's something I am continuously learning how to do as the the next adventure(s) in my journey unfolds.
I love taking directions and following rules. I may push them. I may test them. I may question them. In the end though, I will always follow them.
I am a big kid (or a Little) in my wonderful moments who hasn't completely grown up nor wants to completely grow up.
I am who I am and I am proud of me.
Being me is who I am and I love being me. I wouldn't have it any other way.
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I don’t label myself on one side of the slash or the other. I don’t label myself as a Little or a bottom. I don’t label myself as a switch either. I identify as too many things to want to put myself into a box nor to be put into a box of confinement.
Find out why I don’t label myself in my writing [https://fetlife.com/users/872958/posts/3218110][Labels No More].
Plus, I am [Finally ME!!][https://fetlife.com/users/872958/posts/5938524]
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**Playing:** I love to bottom plain and simple. Submitting though only happens when I truly trust someone and the energy between us is truly there.
**BUT**... I won't bottom to or for just anyone and everyone. I have to have some kind of connection with the person.
Plus, my headspace has to be just right in order for me to play with someone.
**Kinks:**
*ROPE - Suspensions included
*Bondage - Cuffs, Leather, Straight Jackets, and Corsets
*Impact - Flogging, Single Tails, Dragon Tails, Paddles, and Crops
*Fire/Firecupping
*Sensation Play
*Knife Play - Doesn’t Include Cutting
I **always** play publicly with all those I bottom for. Plain and simple!!
**Topping:** I *AM* still learning how to Top and as I continue to develop my Topping skills, I am finding I am truly enjoying my Topping side just as much as if I were bottoming.
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Just a few sayings that fit who I am and/or that I can relate to.
*"Adults are only kids grown up, anyway." - Walt Disney*
*”When is everyone going to catch on that I am only pretending to be an adult?" - Unknown*
*"There is a child in each of us, who comes out in front of the person we are most comfortable with." - Unknown*
*"It is a happy talent to know how to play." - Ralph Waldo Emerson*
*"Honor your being, release your struggles, gather strength from life's storms, relax into the arms of spirit." - Jonathan Lockwood Huie*
*"All our dreams come true if we have the courage to pursue them." - Walt Disney*
*"The creative adult is the child who survived." - Unknown*
*"If it's worth the trouble, go ahead and do what's best." - Me
