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Lilac

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I am so honored to be a moderator for Thrive and excited to attend these amazing classes!



Who will be moderating:

Stop Stressing, Get Action: Create Your Container for Pick-Up Play

Class Description

At the social mixer before the dungeon opens, I take a seat in the corner, hold my breath, and wonder how the hell I’m supposed to tell if someone is into the same things I am. Even a mild intro – “Hi, can you tell me about what you’re into?” – feels like nebulous floundering.

I hated that feeling, so I stopped doing it that way.

Now, before I attend an event, I create a mini-flyer to help me broadcast what I want. If someone’s interested, I use a follow-up questionnaire to structure a conversation about what we’re each looking for.

In this workshop, I will show you an example of how my containers work. Then, you’ll follow some prompts to help you create your own containers. Ultimately, you’ll leave with a tool to help you get to the action in pick-up play a little more easily.

 

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