Skeleton_Bitch (they/he/she), aka Lizzie, aka Picasso of Pain, is a disabled, genderfluid dominant/sadist/artist. They are one of the hosts of the monthly queer-centered play party, QINK DC, and the Director of Education for Black Rose. They have been participating in kink since 2006 and part of the DMV kink community since 2022. They have been navigating the nuances of being kinky while living with multiple chronic illnesses and being autistic with ADHD (AuDHD) and what that means for them as a dominant, top, and organizer. They also love artistic, high-concept scenes that bring various media and forms of expression to play.

https://fetlife.com/Skeleton_Bitch

Dominance When AuDHD explores what it means to lead, top, or play from an autistic and/or ADHD brain. Neurodivergent dominance often looks different from the “classic” archetypes; more direct, more sensory-driven, more ritualized, more creative, and sometimes more chaotic. This class breaks down the strengths AuDHD folks bring to power exchange, as well as the challenges: executive-function strain, communication differences, sensory overwhelm, emotional flooding, and burnout.

We’ll cover practical tools for planning scenes, negotiating without losing the thread, reading partners when cues feel unclear, managing sensory load, pacing intensity, and building structures that support both authority and accessibility. We’ll also discuss aftercare for tops, meta-communication, and integrating your needs into your dominance style without masking.

Open to all roles and experience levels, especially anyone who’s ever thought, “I’m a great dom, I just wish my brain came with an upgrade manual.”

 

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