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We are excited to host

UnrulyNerdGirl

(she/her or he/him)

Profile Details

Canadian, technically Ausnadian after living for four years Down Under, domestic service (aka luxury lifestyle) submissive to the rich and famous and little - service little, cheeky bear, errant evil scout, fervent axe thrower, maker of things, BDSM taxonomist, co-creator of a BDSM board game, and writer/published author.

Entered the BDSM community and lifestyle in her early twenties, and hasn't looked back since. Whether it is a day spent at an estate sale scoping out silverware, or acquiring a new skill for the service tool chest, this little bear makes the most of each day, and is thoroughly tuckered out when curling up next to a mound of stuffies at bed time. Active in local, national, and international BDSM communities as a moderator for various online activities, as one third of the triptych that organizes a local Ottawa munch, and as an educator.

Loves tacos, hot dogs, crafts, Minecraft, going to the gym, powerlifting, pinball, arcades, movie theatres, naps, drag queens, and Lego.




Who will be presenting:

Crafting Social

Social Description


Navigating a Dynamic Breakup

Class Description

Length of Time: 1 to 1.5 hours with questions

Geared To: Anyone who has experienced a dynamic breakdown, or who may want to understand the stages of mourning a dynamic breakdown.

Dynamic breakdowns are usually painful, even when amicable. By understanding the steps in the grief process, learning how to cut ties, and bolstering ourselves with support, we can hopefully move from our emotional pain, to feeling ourselves again.


Self Esteem and Self Confidence as Self Preservation

Class Description

Length of Time: 1 to 1.5 hours with questions

Geared To: Anyone in the lifestyle who wishes to become a harder target for predators in the community

By examining shame, and hopefully reducing it in our daily lives, we can improve our self esteem, and self confidence, to make us a hard target against predators. By increasing our shame resilience, we can create a shield to protect us from those who would use our soft spots against us.


Self Esteem and Self Confidence as Self Preservation

Class Description

By examining shame, and hopefully reducing it in our daily lives, we can improve our self esteem, and self confidence, to make us a hard target against predators. By increasing our shame resilience, we can create a shield to protect us from those who would use our soft spots against us.


Support UnrulyNerdGirl & Thrive

Thank you for your interest and your support of THRIVE! Because THRIVE is 100% free and not accepting donations, we ask that you pay it forward by donating to our speakers. 

UnrulyNerdGirl accepts support through Paypal (unrulynerdgirl@gmail.com).

Pick up her swag at https://www.redbubble.com/people/UnrulyNerdGirl/shop

Please visit her website: www.unrulynerdgirl.com

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Skill set with Show and Tell

Demo Description

Five (5) service skills to add to your service toolbox that would put you in good stead with many Dominants in the lifestyle. Sure, every Dominant is different, but having a few solid skills, that you have honed and made your own, will make you shine no matter where your D/s journey takes you.

Cooking demo - we're making mushroom risotto!