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Profile Details

With over twelve years in the lifestyle, @lilybeast (she/her) is a submissive, brat in a 24/7 primal High Protocol dynamic. As a service-oriented individual, lily focuses on culinary and companion service, using skills gained from two decades in customer service and hospitality.

An active and engaged member of the Southern California kinky community, lily is a staff member of the SoCalKink Discord, an admin in a twenty thousand strong brat group on Facebook, and runs a monthly kinky book club.

Outside of kink, lily goes to therapy, loves cooking, and enjoys taking time to read in the tub.


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Who will be presenting:

Self Care and Submission

Discussion Description

Devoted to serving to others but having trouble serving yourself? Worried that you’ll let people down if you take time for yourself? That’s exactly how I felt too! During this discussion-based class, we will look at self care from different angles to find one that works for you. Together we will think about flipping how we think about self care and how important it is to a dynamic as well as to yourself and even the community. Bring your questions and together we'll go over ideas and tips for how to come into service and submission refreshed and ready for more.