Nishita Rao




Pronouns: She/Her
29 Years Old
United States, California, San Francisco


Thrive Virtual Conference Bio:

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Identities: I am a cis-gendered, androphilic Indian woman and a sexual assault survivor with a decade long experience as a BIPOC sex educator.

Neurodivergent: Inattentive Attention Deficit Disorder (ADHD), Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder(cPTSD), Anxiety, Depression

Background: Neuroscientist, Holistic Sexuality Educator, Reiki Grandmaster, Level I Hypnotherapist, Mandala Art therapist, Raga Therapist (Indian 12th century classical music therapy), Bellydancer and Pole dance enthusiast (Dance-Movement Therapy).

Research Style: Anthropology, Social Neuroscience and Cross-cultural Psychology

Research Interests: Neurobiology of trauma and its generational inheritance, development of human sexual and social behaviors like mate selection, mating styles, fetish development and the influence of colonization on sexual attitudes.

Contact Info: 

You can check out her website at https://www.pillowtalkwithnixi.com/

You can reach her through social media (IG@pillowtalkwithnixi) or at https://www.instagram.com/pillowtalkwithnixi/

Moreover, you could contact her via email at nixi@pillowtalkwithnixi.com

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Nishita Rao




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Contact Info: 

You can check out her website at https://www.pillowtalkwithnixi.com/

You can reach her through social media (IG@pillowtalkwithnixi) or at https://www.instagram.com/pillowtalkwithnixi/

Moreover, you could contact her via email at nixi@pillowtalkwithnixi.com


My Schedule

Thrive 2024

Time Event Room
2024-04-26 23:00:00Welcome/OpeningRoom 3
2024-04-27 01:00:00Neurodivergence and Power Exchange D-Type PanelRoom 3
2024-04-27 15:00:00Playing with Power and Freedom: mixing power exchange and non-monogamy via the lens of Choice TheoryPro Track
2024-04-27 15:00:00Service With Mental Illness and NeurodivergenceRoom 3
2024-04-27 16:45:00Conquer Your Goals: ADHD and Power ExchangeRoom 3
2024-04-27 18:30:00A Little Bit of Everything all of the TimeRoom 3
2024-04-27 20:15:00Codependency isn’t the MonsterRoom 2
2024-04-27 22:00:00Swing Swing Swing From the Tangles of My ManiaRoom 1
2024-04-27 23:45:00The Art of SufferingPro Track
2024-04-27 23:45:00Discovering Disabled DevianceRoom 1
2024-04-28 02:00:00Neurodivergence and Power Exchange s-Type PanelRoom 3
2024-04-28 15:00:00Hacking Hypnokink - befriending your ADHDRoom 2
2024-04-28 15:00:00BDSM and PTSD: (re)claiming our bodies and mindsRoom 3
2024-04-28 16:45:00Taking Anxiety out of Anticipatory ServiceRoom 2
2024-04-28 16:45:001800 Miles: Tools and Stories From A Neurodivergent Dynamic At A DistanceRoom 3
2024-04-28 18:30:00Creative, Kinky AdaptationRoom 1
2024-04-28 18:30:00Can you be OBEDIENT? "I think I can, I think I can, I think... SQUIRREL!"Room 2
2024-04-28 20:15:00When We Want The Imbalance: Working With Consensual Power DynamicsPro Track
2024-04-28 20:15:00Endometriosis in Kink and Radical Acceptance in DisabilityRoom 3
2024-04-28 22:00:00Why They Didn't SafewordRoom 2
2024-04-28 22:00:00Holding Space in the StandRoom 3
2024-04-29 00:00:00Combined PanelRoom 3
2024-04-29 02:15:00ClosingRoom 3


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