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Profile Details

Shalimar is a Leather boy, service pupper, bootblack, and service leader. They are a lifelong student who strives towards building aware communities that address ethics, equity, and safety. They have been in the mental health field for two years and have been in the community for seven years. Their goal is to address issues of accessibility and oppression within our communities and increase the dialogue around issues such as racism, abuse, gatekeeping, and sexism.

Who will be presenting:

Healthier Power

Class Description

We often hear about power, but struggle to identify what it looks like, or what a safer, healthier power dynamic looks like. This class aims to discuss how to recognize unsafe power pulls and identify one’s own power type.


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