Unmasking the Intersections: Navigating Gender Identity, Neurodivergence, and BDSM Dynamics
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Class Description
This course explores the complex overlap between neurodivergence, gender identity, and BDSM. Led by a neuroqueer psychiatric nurse practitioner, we will dismantle the pathologization often found in these intersections to reveal how unique brains experience identity and pleasure. Participants will examine how sensory processing, executive function, and diverse communication styles influence gender expression and power dynamics. Moving beyond basic awareness, we will discuss practical frameworks for consent negotiation, sensory-friendly scene crafting, and the unique therapeutic potential of kink for neurodivergent individuals. This session offers a roadmap for understanding how neurotypes inform the way we navigate intimacy, identity, and control, fostering a safer, more inclusive approach to sexuality.
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PresenterFletcher Ward
(they/them)
Presenter Bio
Fletcher is a dual board-certified Family and Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with nine years of experience dedicated to healthcare equity. They specialize in serving underserved communities with a clinical focus on HIV/Hepatitis C prevention, gender-affirming care, and complex mental health conditions including PTSD and neurodivergency.
As an autistic, non-binary, polyamorous, and queer provider, Fletcher leverages their lived experience to cultivate safe, inclusive, and authentic spaces for patients. They are a passionate advocate for accessible healthcare, weaving together high-level clinical expertise with a holistic, patient-centered approach to population health.
https://www.instagram.com/drmrhpgwrd/
Www.drmrhpgwrd.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/meriahpward
Jason Tomes
(He/they)
Presenter Bio
J is a seasoned veteran with 10 years in military intelligence. They are currently a case manager with experience working with neurodivergent clients. They've been diagnosed with ADHD and are non-binary. They are married to a trans man with autism and have several children with autism as well. They hold extensive experience in neurodivergent populations and their lived experiences.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jason-tomes-443890171
Moderated by
Class Stats
PresenterFletcher Ward
(they/them)
Presenter Bio
Fletcher is a dual board-certified Family and Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with nine years of experience dedicated to healthcare equity. They specialize in serving underserved communities with a clinical focus on HIV/Hepatitis C prevention, gender-affirming care, and complex mental health conditions including PTSD and neurodivergency.
As an autistic, non-binary, polyamorous, and queer provider, Fletcher leverages their lived experience to cultivate safe, inclusive, and authentic spaces for patients. They are a passionate advocate for accessible healthcare, weaving together high-level clinical expertise with a holistic, patient-centered approach to population health.
https://www.instagram.com/drmrhpgwrd/
Www.drmrhpgwrd.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/meriahpward
Jason Tomes
(He/they)
Presenter Bio
J is a seasoned veteran with 10 years in military intelligence. They are currently a case manager with experience working with neurodivergent clients. They've been diagnosed with ADHD and are non-binary. They are married to a trans man with autism and have several children with autism as well. They hold extensive experience in neurodivergent populations and their lived experiences.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jason-tomes-443890171
Moderated by
Class Stats
Fletcher Ward
(they/them)
Presenter Bio
Fletcher is a dual board-certified Family and Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with nine years of experience dedicated to healthcare equity. They specialize in serving underserved communities with a clinical focus on HIV/Hepatitis C prevention, gender-affirming care, and complex mental health conditions including PTSD and neurodivergency.
As an autistic, non-binary, polyamorous, and queer provider, Fletcher leverages their lived experience to cultivate safe, inclusive, and authentic spaces for patients. They are a passionate advocate for accessible healthcare, weaving together high-level clinical expertise with a holistic, patient-centered approach to population health.
https://www.instagram.com/drmrhpgwrd/
Www.drmrhpgwrd.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/meriahpward
Jason Tomes
(He/they)
Presenter Bio
J is a seasoned veteran with 10 years in military intelligence. They are currently a case manager with experience working with neurodivergent clients. They've been diagnosed with ADHD and are non-binary. They are married to a trans man with autism and have several children with autism as well. They hold extensive experience in neurodivergent populations and their lived experiences.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jason-tomes-443890171