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Poly Dynamic Communications Panel

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Panelist Bio

Bebe is a Consent, Poly & Power Exchange Educator, traveling to and presenting at events around the USA, while she also tables for National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF). She is serving her 6th year on the Board of Directors of the NCSF, currently as Coalition Partner Liaison, helping to keep communication flowing between our community group leaders. Bebe is a Trained & Certified Sexual Assault Victim Advocate with the State of IL, supporting victims of sexual assault in emergency room settings and educating support staff on issues of consent & alternative lifestyles. During COVID confinement, Bebe founded the ‘Submissive Safe Call’, an online discussion group for s types only, to keep learning, connecting and sharing during COVID. And finally, Bebe is Eternally Grateful to LLC for choosing her as recipient of their ‘Servant Leader’ award for 2020.

Dirty Lola


Panelist Bio

I'm a sex edutainer, speaker, phone sex maven, and a dildo slinger. Known for my live sex ed Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go and as co-host of New York Magazine’s The Cut’s “Sex Probz” web series, I've spent almost a decade working to end stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality. I started my journey sharing my personal discoveries with polyamory and kink online, and now I use my knowledge, warm candor, and public platforms to teach the masses in-person and to rapt Internet audiences.



Panelist Bio

Zach / Invictuz on FetLife (He/Him) – Zach is a self-proclaimed nerd, sex geek and consent junkie. Zach became interested in consent as a topic over 5 years ago as a personal research project. He is currently completing his Masters of Social Work degree at University of Houston to be of even more benefit to his community. Zach also serves as the Gulf Coast Advocate for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF), attending professional social work conventions, providing info on kink & polyamory to social work and mental health professionals. He is currently serving as an intern of social work at Houston’s local LGBTQ Center, where he serves as a group facilitator and clinical student intern. Zach is a member of the Board of Loving More (, the nation’s oldest Polyamory Advocacy organization.  Zach puts his Consent Educator muscles to work on, where he consults and schedules presentations on the topics of ‘The Five Pillars of Consent’©, ‘Radical Self-ish Care’, ‘BDSM & the Law’ and does consultation sessions for self care. 


Master Dante Amor

(He / Him)

Panelist Bio

Master Dante Amor

(House Amor, MAsT International, MTTA Inc., The Poly Exchange, Our Leather Legacy)

Master Dante has been formally active in M/s for 20 years and owner of Slave Gaia Amor for 15, a polyamorous Master/slave relationship by design from its inception. This expanded into a polyfidelitous household when Sarah Amor joined his leather family and again when Coco entered his service in 2020.

Loquacious pusher of buttons, tipper of sacred cows, and a certified clinical hypnotherapist for over two decades. When it comes to authority-based relationships, Dante has always focused on the emotional, psychological, and interpersonal dynamics first and foremost.

A firm believer that mastery is a continual work in progress requiring ongoing self-inquiry, personal development, vulnerability, and a willingness to support others, he is currently in service to the community as:

• Host - Our Leather Legacy

• Founder - The Poly Exchange

• Board of Directors - MTTA, Inc.

• Director - MAsT: Metro New York

• Board of Directors - MAsT International, Inc.

• Executive Producer - MsC WORLDWIDE 2021

Master Kaddan


Panelist Bio

Master Kaddan Yue, Northeast LeatherWoman 2020-2021 and founding sister of ONYX Pearls NY/Northeast, has more than 40 years experience living the lifestyle. After spending her initial seven years in the lifestyle "training from the bottom up," she has become the third generation of her The House of Yue line. Specializing in long-distance power exchange dynamics and outreach, Master Kaddan identifies as a Transient Transgender woman who has very strong masculine energy, I choose to dress masculine, my honorific is Sir. Master with a primary love is for fem lesbians and currently owns the House of Yue with a mix of females and a male. The structure of the house is trainees, slaves, and property who reside outside of the NYC Metro area.

Master Kaddan emphasizes strong communication skills in all aspects of the lifestyle. She holds a Professional Human Services Degree with emphasis on Cognitive and Behavioral Therapy and previously served for more than 18 years federal and state-level forensic populations including violent offenders, individuals with mental health issues, and individuals coping with HIV/AIDS. Now retired, her focus has shifted to being a Life Coach Consultant, building her household, the M/s community, and volunteering.

As part of her advocacy for healthy power exchange relationships and desire to broaden the definition of the BDSM community, Master Kaddan embraced technology to help share best practices, practical application, and mentoring beyond the bounds of real-time traditional Leather settings.

"While some may dismiss any platform other than Real Life, there are millions of individuals around the world unable to access real-life interactions safely or easily connect with the elders in our communities. Younger generations use technology to connect over time, distance, and cultural divides. The BDSM and Leather communities should also embrace technology to share critical introductory information concerning our lifestyles."

In 2011, Master Kaddan’s outside the box thinking led her to the Second Life (SL) platform, where she identified a gap in the online virtual world’s BDSM groups, Master/slave dynamics were often misrepresented and/or misinterpreted. To help fill the gap, she developed within the Second Life platform The Art of Submission (AOS), an education-focused Master/slave venue to host unique lifestyle-related discussions with facilitators who are active in their Real-Life Communities. AOS does 4 discussions a week, I am currently doing Thursday reaching 10 to 25 people per discussion.

"I was taught that service can have many faces, so I’ve harnessed Second Life as one of the many ways to explore and promote healthy D/s and M/s dynamics. The question is simply, ‘Are you open-minded?'"



My Household:
My Life Coaching:

slave Gaia Armor


Panelist Bio

Slave Gaia first came to understand her slave heart eighteen years ago in South Africa where she was born, raised, and active in the local community as both a participant and presenter. She then moved halfway around the world to New York City to be collared by Master Dante Amor, who she has had the privilege of serving for fifteen years. 

She possesses a deep passion for community service, an outgrowth of embracing it as her chosen family. Her dedication to loving and caring for others is one of the most natural expressions of her slavery as evidenced by her being such a shameless hugging whore. She is Secretary/Treasurer of MAsT: Metro New York, Operations Staff for The Poly Exchange, Associate Member of Onyx Pearls NY/NE, and proudly supports House Amor, her polyamorous leather family in all its endeavors.

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