Playing Safe: Navigating Dissociation and Plurality in Kink Spaces
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Class Description
Dissociation can show up in kink spaces in ways that are easy to miss or hard to understand. This class offers an accessible introduction to dissociation and plurality (also known as Dissociative Identity Disorder), including what’s happening in the brain during dissociative responses and what dissociation can look like from the outside. Participants will learn practical ways to support someone who is dissociating, including grounding tools, communication strategies, and how to maintain consent and safety when scenes shift unexpectedly. Whether you're a partner, playmate, or person with dissociative abilities yourself, this class provides clear, kink-aware guidance for recognizing dissociation and responding with confidence and care.
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PresenterCarolyn Menger, LICSW
(She/they)
Presenter Bio
Carolyn (they/she) is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker and the founder of Serene Waters Psychotherapy. They specialize in working with neurodivergent clients, Queer and Trans communities, and individuals navigating dissociation and complex trauma. Their work is grounded in trauma-informed, identity affirming, and kink aware practice.
Carolyn earned their Master of Social Work degree from the University of St. Thomas in 2021 and completed a Certificate in Sex Therapy at the University of Wisconsin–Stout in 2022. Their past clinical experience spans inpatient psychiatric hospitals, community mental health, and group private practice, informing a holistic and compassionate approach to care.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/carolyn-menger-new-hope-mn/869622
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PresenterCarolyn Menger, LICSW
(She/they)
Presenter Bio
Carolyn (they/she) is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker and the founder of Serene Waters Psychotherapy. They specialize in working with neurodivergent clients, Queer and Trans communities, and individuals navigating dissociation and complex trauma. Their work is grounded in trauma-informed, identity affirming, and kink aware practice.
Carolyn earned their Master of Social Work degree from the University of St. Thomas in 2021 and completed a Certificate in Sex Therapy at the University of Wisconsin–Stout in 2022. Their past clinical experience spans inpatient psychiatric hospitals, community mental health, and group private practice, informing a holistic and compassionate approach to care.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/carolyn-menger-new-hope-mn/869622
Moderated by
Class Stats
So far people have registered for this Class
Carolyn Menger, LICSW
(She/they)
Presenter Bio
Carolyn (they/she) is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker and the founder of Serene Waters Psychotherapy. They specialize in working with neurodivergent clients, Queer and Trans communities, and individuals navigating dissociation and complex trauma. Their work is grounded in trauma-informed, identity affirming, and kink aware practice.
Carolyn earned their Master of Social Work degree from the University of St. Thomas in 2021 and completed a Certificate in Sex Therapy at the University of Wisconsin–Stout in 2022. Their past clinical experience spans inpatient psychiatric hospitals, community mental health, and group private practice, informing a holistic and compassionate approach to care.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/carolyn-menger-new-hope-mn/869622